Who suffers the most?

God has a great plan for man to be the head of families and he has established the first family in the garden of Eden. It is will of God to see the families are glorifying him together. But for the widows they have lost their husbands sometimes they have the kids left behind with them. They are always in shadow of sadness, they have little hope and they are the people who suffer the most. Therefore, we do not need to turn our backs for widows. James 1:27